What It Means When a Guy Takes You to The Cheesecake Factory

ASUS BUTTERFLY
ZORA
Published in
5 min readNov 17, 2023

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A Happy Couple Having a Dinner Date / Photo by Gustavo Fring

The internet has been set ablaze with dissertations on The Cheesecake Factory date scandal. Well, here is one more dissertation, but in it, I will provide some things to consider about why a man takes you to the Cheesecake Factory, and why, sometimes, it says more about you than it does him.

Let me first say this: I don’t know why y’all are getting in cars with these men on first dates and not know where you are going! Are you trying to get kidnapped!?!? I don’t get in the car with a man on the first date, and I never not know where I am going on a first date before I arrive. I always arrive separately and let someone know where I am and who I am with just in case.

Here is why you may be getting dates to The Cheesecake Factory.

1. You Are Attracting on Your Level, but Desire More

Braggin’ on that cash that he gave you is a front
If you’re gonna brag, make sure it’s your money you flaunt
Depend on no one else to give you what you want — Destiny’s Child, Independent Women (Part 1)

A lot of women who are complaining about The Cheesecake Factory (or similar restaurants) for a…

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ASUS BUTTERFLY
ASUS BUTTERFLY

Written by ASUS BUTTERFLY

Author of Stories concerning Black America & Hot Topics w/ a Positive Flare & Teachable Moment | Google Top Author | Co-Editor Afro-Cinemaphile & AfroSapiophile

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