What It’s Like To Get Married on Zoom
Getting married online is a way to stand strong against the isolating effects of the pandemic
On Unsha Bakker’s wedding day, the 27-year-old sat in front of her computer, dressed in her mother’s red and gold wedding sari. The sari wasn’t the wedding outfit she had in mind, but neither was her living room as a venue. Her wedding had been planned for July with a venue, vendors, and an imam nearly decided, but the couple had not foreseen the pandemic. Bakker, who lives in Queens and works as a nurse at NYU, did not want to wait. “We were like — if we wait a couple of months for this to die down, who knows who will be affected by the virus?”
Eventually, Bakker and her then-fiancé settled on an idea they’d seen around the internet. What if they held their wedding virtually? Bakker tweezed her own eyebrows and did her own makeup. They decorated their house with hanging flowers and glitzy fabric. Then, they carefully examined each of the 10 wedding guests before they were allowed into the house, checking their temperatures and making sure they weren’t showing symptoms of the novel coronavirus.
On Saturday night, 70 screens, including that of an officiant from California, tuned into Zoom for their nikkah, the Muslim ceremony. It turned out that a virtual wedding isn’t so…
