ZORA
Celebrating and centering the experiences of women of color.

Breakups

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Can the attempt to get paid by men who disappointed me deliver something bigger than healing?

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Days after my 32nd birthday, I sat hunched over my computer typing feverishly into oblivion as the sky darkened outside. It was Memorial Day weekend and instead of being at someone’s barbecue drunkenly two-stepping to Earth, Wind & Fire I was drafting invoices — two invoices — to two men…

XOXO

Even though you might feel otherwise, you can pick up the pieces and move on with your life

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It’s over. For a while, you were stuck in a haze because you couldn’t wrap your head around it, but it’s finally sinking in: Your relationship is done. You remember the early butterflies so vividly, the way you smiled when you heard their voice, and the scent they would leave…

ZORA

Celebrating and centering the experiences of women of color.

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