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Ramadan Is More Beautiful Than Ever
How I’ve kept the spirit of the month alive for my family in the age of isolation
Amid social distancing measures and a panicky national atmosphere, Ramadan, the holiest month in the Islamic calendar, is underway. During a time that is usually marked by glittery festivities and a huge uptick in social occasions, observers across the world are abstaining from food and drink during daylight hours in isolation. As I’ve grown into a parent with two young children under five years old, the past few Ramadans have been bursting with iftar parties to break fast with friends, community activities, and dinners with extended family. Early on, my husband and I prioritized fostering a festive atmosphere to inspire love for the holy month in our children’s hearts.
Obviously, Ramadan under quarantine looks very different. Mosques are closed until further notice, and community now looks like a flurry of Zoom calls. Much to my dismay, this strange, isolated Ramadan might be my children’s earliest memory of the holiday. I mourn the precious moments they do not have with their grandparents this year. I mourn the carefree parties with their friends, lovingly festooned with Ramadan decor to make them feel proud of their faith. I mourn the joy that only celebrating in community can provide. How could we ever make up for these…
