WOMANISM + CULTURE

Let’s Not Shame Black Women for Strengths or Weaknesses

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Whoever said lightning never strikes twice failed to consider what life was like for Black women. Whether at home, at work, or in academic settings, racism and sexism create a dangerous storm for Black women to navigate through.

While some insults are blatant, some are more subtle. The strong Black woman trope, for example, acts as an underhanded compliment. While having superhuman strength sounds like an asset, it furthers a dangerous narrative. Namely, that Black women do not need help.

We Must Make Space For Black Women To Be Delicate and Vulnerable

When people assume you are strong enough to move mountains, no one will come to your aid. They believe it’s okay to pile on responsibilities and expectations without end. Yet, Black women can be just as delicate, fragile, and vulnerable as other women.

When Naomi Osaka and Simone Biles stepped away from their athletic events for their mental health, they took a lot of flack from the public. Some people calling them weak. As someone immersed in psychology literature, I find their critiques appalling. When Osaka and Biles stepped away, they embraced…