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I May Never Be Ready to Fully Embrace My Natural Hair

I’m also officially done feeling guilty about it.

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“I’m actually surprised you never decided to get on board with the natural hair movement. You’re one of the strongest, most authentic women I know, so I would have thought you’d be one of the first.” That’s something a female friend of color said to me not all that long ago.




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Shannon Hilson

Shannon Hilson

Life is short and precious. Memento mori. | Email: bellingthecat@gmail.com | Links: https://linktr.ee/shannonhilson

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