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Hey Bartender! I’ll Have a Rum and Coke

There are drinks I make at home, and drinks I order when I’m out. This is the latter kind 🥃

What’s your go-to, top-of-mind drink order? For me it’s a classic rum and Coke! (Photo credit: Getty Images)

Picture this — it’s the before times and you’re sandwiched in a loud crowd at a packed bar. The bartender is incredibly busy and keeps moving further away from you. The bartender arches…




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