He Wanted a Certain Type of Black Girl

Loving Black women runs deeper than loving those with light skin

Beyonce Knowles-Carter attends the European Premiere of Disney’s “The Lion King” at Odeon Luxe Leicester Square on July 14, 2019 in London, England. Photo: Gareth Cattermole/Getty Images

Summer 2011: I was watching a Harry Potter movie (don’t ask me which one because I really don’t remember) when a scene completely unnecessary to the plot came up. Harry is sitting in a restaurant and he captures the attention of a young Black woman. She’s slender, tall, light-skinned, big 3C curl pattern hair; think McDonald’s commercial. One of the co-workers who had invited me over to watch this Harry Potter movie couldn’t keep his remarks to himself:

“Man… Black girls like that are so pretty!”

I didn’t know how to respond to that. The fact that he had the gall to say that right in front of me let me know that he obviously didn’t think there was anything wrong with that statement.

“Black girls like what?” I asked.

“You know, like… that skin tone and that brownish hair color with the big curly hair! So pretty!”

This was years ago. I don’t remember my response exactly, but I’m sure it was something along the lines of, “What about everyone else?”

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