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On Dating, Desire, and Sex In Your 40s

How women of color can reclaim relationships for the 21st century

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I am a 40-year-old Black woman and I am as single as a dollar bill.

Don’t feel bad for me, because I’m not at all lamenting being single. I’ve been married, divorced, and I’ve had a couple of long-term relationships. Now, I choose…