Black Attitude

If we want to combat racism, let’s end “bystanderism.”

Jeffrey Kass
ZORA
Published in
4 min readNov 14, 2023

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Nearly every morning from 7:00 a.m. to 8:00 a.m., I head to my favorite coffee shop in Denver to write. Sometimes with our new 25-week-old Bernedoodle, Gucci, by my side.

For anyone wanting to write a book, this is actually the best advice I can give. Make an appointment with yourself. Keep the appointment. And then write the entire time. It doesn’t really matter if you get 100 or 1,000 words out. Just write.

On October 18, 2023, I was just doing just that while sipping on a nice Guatemalan coffee.

As I typed away, a loud commotion interrupted my thought process.

A white barista and a white customer were yelling at each other.

I stood up.

“What’s happening?” I asked the three people working that day. I knew all of them and was concerned.

“She just said ‘you have a Black attitude’ to Michelle,’” a visibly angry white employee told me as she pointed to the customer.

Michelle is a soft-spoken, kind, smart 20-year-old Black college student who works at the coffee shop to help pay for school.

I turned my eyes to the customer.

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Jeffrey Kass
Jeffrey Kass

Written by Jeffrey Kass

A Medium Top Writer on Racism, Diversity, Education, History and Parenting | Speaker | Award-Winning Author | Latest Book: Black Batwoman V. White Jesus | Dad