Ambitious, and absolutely not sorry
There’s nothing new about women being criticized for being “too ambitious,” but every now and then there’s a story that deserves a fresh eye roll 🙄. Just take a look at the judgment and commentary around Kamala Harris last week, which reminded us of Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s enduring words: “We say to girls, you can have ambition, but not too much. You should aim to be successful, but not too successful. Otherwise, you would threaten the man.”
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For women, particularly Black women and women of color, our ambition isn’t always appealing. Rather, it can be a demerit. I know this firsthand. Last year, an executive at a digital sports platform reached out to me to gauge my interest in joining his company. When I shared with him my career aims — to continue in leadership roles — the exec remarked, with a breathy chuckle, “Well, that’s very ambitious of you.” The words, and tone, stung. I later learned that the role he looked to put me in was too small for me — someone who gladly owns her ambition. Even when the men in my past have told me, in the most overt or covert ways, that my ambition can be intimidating.
Honestly, if someone has a problem with your ambition, that’s a clear sign of their insecurity.
Folks will be threatened by your big dreams, by how you move in the world, by the way in which you don’t settle for less. That’s on them — and never on you. The truth is, we will always be too much for a world that thinks too little of us. Even when it’s our ambition shaping this world for the better.
When we unabashedly own our gifts and our drive, folks want to knock us down by weaponizing our ambition. It’s their attempt to keep us in check. No one who calls us “too ambitious” has any right to check us. Instead, they need to check themselves.
Christina M. Tapper, ZORA deputy editor
You may have heard the catchy “Not the Bayang” song by now. If not, have fun with it here. The song, created by 19-year-old Mississippi native Nyissa is prompting women, who had a bangs phase or two, to share throwback pics. We couldn’t let the moment pass us by.
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This week, ZORA’s own senior editor Morgan Jerkins released her second collection of essays titled Wandering in Strange Lands: A Daughter of the Great Migration Reclaims Her Roots. In the book, Morgan traces her family’s movements across America before, during and after the Great Migration. Writer Kaitlyn Greenidge spoke with Morgan about her travels and her book writing experience for ZORA. Congratulations, Morgan! 🎈
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“Deal with yourself as an individual worthy of success and make everyone else deal with you the same way.”
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