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A Case for Checking His Background Before Committing

If your partner refuses to perform this forensic deep dive into every aspect of their lives, run

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I once married a man who was already married. For months, we planned our wedding, and for months, I asked him to present his divorce decree. We needed to know the date of…




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Elisabeth Ovesen

Elisabeth Ovesen

3x New York Times bestselling author, Senior Copywriter, and essayist. https://www.lilibetovesen.com/

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