PinnedMillennial Love Is Trash AF: But Our Uglasses Still Want It ThoughIt’s legit damn near 5:00 AM as I have a ton of shit to do, but as I was cleaning my apartment like the fine ass auntie I am, I got swept…Jun 8, 2022Jun 8, 2022
Dear Columbus Zoo: You Can Go Straight to Hell, Signed By a Big, Beautiful & Black WomanIn the year of our Lord 2022, the weak ass Columbus Zoo (Ohio) elected violence as some fatphobic assholes named a gotdamn manatee after…Jan 31, 2022Jan 31, 2022
Published inZORABig Black Girls Have Standards Too…Witcho UglassHey y’all, heyyyy! It has been a minute, but I am back to dish on this fuckery we call dating. In 2020, I vowed to go one year without…Nov 15, 20212Nov 15, 20212
The BBW Slay 2021 Dating Chronicles: Romance, Gaslighting & Confusion in Orlando (Part 1)Hey ya’ll! So, first, I’m so excited to learn how many Black women really find value in my blogs. I LIVE for creating good feelings for…Apr 19, 2021Apr 19, 2021
The BBW Slay 2021 Dating ChroniclesDating as a Black girl is tough af. But dating as a plus sized woman can be dreadful as hell. You have to balance between “Damn…does he…Jan 5, 2021Jan 5, 2021
Dear Issa: Sis, Please Do Better With Big, Black Women CharactersSo, let’s start with this — The HBO #BlackGirlMagic sitcom “Insecure” is HELLO DOPE; however, on behalf of Big, Beautiful and Black queens…May 25, 20201May 25, 20201
Dear Black Brothers Who Hate Black Women, Please Get Help!Yesterday on our Instagram page, a random, troll ass brotha came to disrupt a whole virtual celebration of black, bbw girl magic.Apr 6, 2020Apr 6, 2020
A Series of Big, Beautiful & Black Girl Think Pieces on “Queen & Slim”Part 1: The Opening Date SceneDec 29, 2019Dec 29, 2019
I have Less than 4 Months Before I Officially Have Geriatric Eggs & I am Okay With ThatLet’s start by acknowledging how random af I am. I was supposed to be in Hartford, CT right now turning up showing my entire ass at the…Dec 18, 2019Dec 18, 2019
Canceling Black Friday Hurts Small, Black Women-Owned Businesses, So STFUI have been seeing a new wave of social media antics attacking Black Friday with the new “woke" concept of not buying anything. **Sigh** So…Nov 30, 2019Nov 30, 2019
I’m a Black 34.5 BBW & I Date Black Women & Gay Black Men(Photo Source: Rich Polk/Getty Images North America)Nov 26, 2019Nov 26, 2019
The Joy When Big, Beautiful, Black Girls Get MarriedBlack Love is one of the most beautiful things one can ever know. Sure love is blind and all that generic stuff, but as an African…Oct 21, 2019Oct 21, 2019
3 Strategies on How to Deal with Dumb Ass People at Work When You Are a Black Woman & Smarter than…Who can relate…You are in a boring ass team meeting at work where no one is really coming up with any solutions — literally just…Oct 7, 2019Oct 7, 2019
Misogynoir & The Lack of Forgiveness of Black WomenI remember the first time I fell in love with soulful talent Chrisette Michelle. I was in college, just learning about the concept of love…Sep 28, 2019Sep 28, 2019
The Intersection of Fatphobia, Misogynoir & Patriarchy: A Proper Dragging for Folks Coming for Lela…July 24, 2019Jul 24, 2019Jul 24, 2019
Why Free, Black Ass Women Love Hot Girl Meg & The 4 Reasons Y’all Big MadJuly 22, 2019Jul 22, 20191Jul 22, 20191