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4 Nonnegotiables for Any Romantic Relationship

You deserve to have a partnership that satisfies you

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At age seven, I was entirely too young to be singing along to Janet Jackson’s “What Have You Done for Me Lately,” but that didn’t stop me. The intro was a conversation between two friends in which one confides that her boyfriend stood her up again. As she tries to…




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